Real ID Redux

So I was a bit upset about Real ID on the forums, back in July. I’m still not particularly pleased with the in-game functions either, although I do carefully make use of them. Today I’ve noticed a change. Pointed out on twitter by @NDMiko, the change enables users to hide themselves from friends of friends.

As you can see from the image above, under ‘Settings’ in your battle.net account there is now a simple toggle for enabling Real ID. Like facebook are wont to do with their privacy settings, the Real ID system is toggled on by default. Not so good. There are also two other settings that will allow the cautious to hide themselves from friends of friends, making the Real ID feature more useable for those of us who wish to maintain privacy for whatever reason.

My only quibble is that by default you are still going to show up on Facebook Friends lists and Friends of Friends lists. You have to actively opt out of both these services, at the very least the Facebook one should be off by default. I also wish that some sort of notification was available in-game to let people know that these features are now live. They may have been out for a while now, but I certainly had not noticed them until now.

Those players who until how have had to use Child Controls to disable the system will now simply be able to switch it off with ease. Very good news. More news like this, Blizz.

I don’t see your problem: Sexism, World of Warcraft and Geekery

N.B: This article has received some small edits since original publication, in order to add examples contributed via email or comment. I have also done a few edits to clarify certain points and correct typos etc. Many thanks to everyone who has commented. This article also appeared here and at Geek Feminism. I have also done a round up of some relevant reading and responses which I highly recommend.

When I log in to WoW, I don’t get discriminated against because I am a woman. My opinions are valued by my fellow officers and guild members (and a wider community of people on my realm.) This blog is my voice, and I have power over the comments. I am surrounded by intelligent, clever, eloquent people in the communities I have chosen to interact with. I have been educated by their words, by their examples. If I want I can exist in an online bubble and chose to believe that this way of thinking is mainstream.

And then I poke my head out of my friendly little bubble, and the magnitude of crap out there makes me wibble and want to hide away again. It’s not FUN calling out your friends on ableist/sexist/racist bullshit, especially when they held your hands through multiple dramas at University, and still persist in wanting to hang out with you after you’ve spent a morning-after dry-heaving into a toilet.

It’s not just about a statue (or bunny ears, or skimpy armor)

Not long ago there was some minor kerfuffle over the lack of a female character in the ‘Victory’ statue. This is the statue in the centre of Dalaran that commemtorates the ‘victory’ over Arthas. A lot of people (not just men) dismissed this as being over-sensitive and a bit pointless, and the story didn’t even really make it into the blogosphere. Even I didn’t bother with it.

What makes me upset about relatively small things like this is not the individual small problem, but the overall picture. Even the bitch jokes and dialogue, although they seem isolated, make up a much bigger picture that is produced by a development team that is predominatly white and male. Many women in the geek industries will adopt the mainstream geek culture in order to fit in – just as in mainstream society we accept that showing cellulite is inappropriate, and that women should wear bras because otherwise men might be distracted by nipples.

So let us have a look at context

Please bear in mind that this is not a complete list, and I certainly don’t expect everyone to agree with everything on the list. Some of the examples given deserve a more completely analysis than I am able to give here, and it is very easy to disagree with or dismiss most of these problematic things on an individual basis. The specifics aren’t the point, and the intent of Blizzard is not the point, it is the trends produced by the male privilege that I am calling out here, not the game itself.

So, we have the various skimpy outfits. The quite frankly random cleavage that happens to a lot of generic dungeon sets (that gear set that covers EVERYTHING but the women’s eyes and their cleavage, for example?) A lot of women in the game do enjoy dressing up in outfits that reveal the curves of their female toon. Others just want their plate armor to cover their soft organs. We have the Queen of the Red Dragons dressed in the typical bikini outfight – surely a more regal outfit could be found for her? (A part of me feels that dragons wouldn’t clothe themselves at all in human form, but male dragons don’t show any inclination towards nekkidness.)

Moving on from skimpy outfits, we head to the language applied to anything that is sexy or shows flesh – slut-shaming, body hate. There is a difference between criticising the ubiquity of the in-game and fan art that has plate bikini and is catering to the male gaze, and directing hateful language towards the female body, or a woman who chooses to wear a short skirt. Unfortunately the two tend to go hand in hand.

Three female character models from World of Warcraft

While we’re on skimpy armour, lets take a look at Ysera, Alextrazsa and Sylvanas. Now, I have no problems with characters sharing models – it happens a lot in WoW. Even though (as pointed out by Dee of Azeroth Me many of the unique male characters are topless, there isn’t the same sexualisation of those characters going on. I love all three models from the shoulder up. One model (Sylvanas maybe) with the skimpy bikini top would have been fine. I can even reconcile Alextrazsa as supposedly the ‘embodiment of fertility’, but did they really need to have the same faces and armour? Maybe Alextrasza and Ysera share a wardrobe, but very few other dragons show such an interest in standing around naked.

Also Sylvanas needs to have a little extra rot going on. What with the undead thing.

Next we have the two major female characters being excised from the Lich King defeat story. Sylvanas and Jaina are there all the way through WCIII, Vanilla, TBC and Lower Spire, and yet when it comes to the Lich King fight they are mysteriously absent. There is no absolution for their interactions with Arthas, in this expansion.

Then those two major female characters are the embodiment of classic ‘female leader’ tropes, with Sylvanas being patently ‘up to no good’ and Jaina succumbing to female ‘weakness’ at every turn. Actually, take a look at this fabulous breakdown of female characters in WoW, with percentages and character archetypes. I’m not drawing any conclusions from it yet, but it makes for an interesting read and break down. One thing I do draw from it is the ‘Maiden/Lover’, ‘Mother’, and ‘Hag/Shrew’ breakdowns, which I think require some deeper analysis than I am able to give here.

ADDITION: It was noted by a commenter that the female leaders seem to be associated with rebellions and subversiveness rather than ‘rightful’ leadership. Something worth exploring further.

And Tyrande? Yes she can sit quietly in Darnassus and glare meaningfully over at at Fandrel. She doesn’t need to do anything. (Note that I haven’t explored Tyrande’s role in Cataclysm yet, but for a lot of the books her storyline is defined and couched within the way it impacts upon the two men in her life.)

Then we have the ‘habit’ of Jaina-hate, calling her a whore or a slut because she dared to have relationships with more than one man. This is not of Blizzard’s making, but it is a perfect example of sexist attitudes prevalent within the player base (and certainly not limited to men.) She needs a storyline makeover that doesn’t involve her ‘relationships’ with men. This attitude towards Jaina is prevalent in many, many WoW Communities, even in female-friendly spaces.

Then Maiev Shadowsong who, by the end, only had purpose to exist because of a man, a story thread explicitly acknowledge in the Illidan fight. Not to mention that most female ‘bosses’ will play second fiddle to a leading male character. Of 2 female ‘end bosses’, Vashj still plays second fiddle to Illidan and Onyxia (besides being dead) is arguabley outranked by Nefarion. For each expansion, the ultimate end-game entities have been male – Kel’thuzud, Illidan/Archimonde, and Lich King. Cataclysm won’t change this, but I am looking forward to a future expansion featuring Azshara (although common sense tells me that this is likely to be an expansion involving Sargeras.)

No female soldier in the victory statue. Despite there being male and female guard npcs all over the game, they are absent from this representation of victory. Not just the statue, the fact of being shouted down for having the temerity to talk about it. While, again, this feels very minor and unimportant, when viewed in a wider context it is upsetting.

And come to that, enter groups of NPCs with no female model at all – ogres, kobolds, furbolgs, Gronn. Although there could be a comment made for the idea that these are races which simply lack the sexual dimorphism of the playable races, or lack a true gender binary/human style reproductive system. Dragons would be an example of this, although they have very gendered human forms, there is always Chromie/Chromuru. Wolfshead cites this as an example of sexism against men as the ‘villains’, which would hold more weight if we had more women as ‘heros’ in the first place. But no, all the females, good and bad, play second fiddle to male protagonists. Only minor, insignificant NPCs get to pass the Bechdel test in WoW (I am unsure if this applies to any of the books though.)

I mean seriously, the Bechdel test? It is fucking scary how few games and movies pass this.

1. It has to have at least two women in it
2. Who talk to each other
3. About something besides a man

Numerous ‘jokes’ in the beta that play off gendered insults and stereotypes, and one joke that is either about consensual bondage/goblin greed or about rape, depending on whether you hear ‘he’ or ‘she’. I’m not saying that some of the current jokes are any better, but there are ways do innuendo jokes without buying into the more degrading aspects of being compared a female dog, or a golddigger. Not only that, but it is male designers putting these jokes in the mouths of female player characters – not the same thing as the word being reclaimed and used by women at all.

A lot of the female jokes in general will play off gender and sexuality, while male jokes will be just that – jokes with no gender related component. The female human jokes even gently poke fun at gender stereotypes (rather than merely perpetuating them) with “So me and my friends swap clothes all the time, we’re all the same size!”

The new horde leader calling Sylvanas a ‘Bitch‘. While it can be ‘explained away’ by Blizzard wanting to represent Garrosh as the sort of person who says that, the fact is that they are legitimising the use of the language. On the scale of insults towards women it is relatively low (and also cue commentators telling me they’re female and they’re okay with it) but it is a largely unnecessary step, and it comes out of the mouth of a character that the audience is apparently supposed to sympathise with.

A questline in the Goblin starter zone where the player character has to murder their cheating ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, and rip out their still-beating hearts. Again, the sexism of this is debatable (the male/female npcs involved in this are called Candy and Chip En Dale) but it’s not sitting pretty with the entire picture.

The fact that, of all the Warrior spell and talent icons, Chas points out to us that the only recognisably female Icon is for a talent called Rude Interruption. Hmm what about the other classes? Only looking at the Cataclysm tree for these talents, and not at the spell icons.

So the ‘female icons’ for our talents, and most of them are healing/nurture related, with Hunters and Warriors at the exception to that, while 4 other classes have no female representation at all in their talent trees. As with all my other examples, this is a small thing and easily ignored in isolation (because really, icons?) When taken in context with larger trends it is disheartening. (And please don’t tell me I’m overreacting – I write a lot, it’s what I do.) I will say that Blizzard has put a lot of gender neutral icons, and I sincerely doubt this was intentional on the part of the artists, but the majority of humanoid icons are very masculine.

It’s Playboy Bunny Ears being distributed as part of Noblegarden, a holiday otherwise associated with Easter, and an achievement that requires you to put the ears on female characters of level 18 of each racea clear reference to the general ‘age of consent’ in many parts of the western world. The ears themselves are pretty innocuous. As a sex-positive person I do not hold that all pornography is degrading to women, but I find the Playboy brand extremely problematic and unwelcome in the WoW universe, especially coming with the ‘level 18′ reference. I’m not offended by the achievement so much as worried by it.

It’s the character models all adhering to the traditional hourglass figure, even though the actual body type range is fairly broad, and yet not even modelling the boob animations with any kind of support. Playing my favourite dwarf characters always make me wince when they run – even in plate the boobs wobble around unconstrained! There is a positive angle to this, in that Blizzard changed the models of the women in game in response to the complaints of female players. As someone who adored the old female troll model, this makes me sad, but it is positive that Blizzard responded to the female voices rather than dismissing them.

And it’s all the shit that many women have to experience in game, from the player base, from internalised sexism, from other women.

“Why does everyone automatically assume I know tailoring and cooking?” is female human joke phrase repeated by a lot of female players – except that it instead refers to playing a healer, or using feminine wiles to get things from guild mates, or needing protection and help from male friends.

So, -isms and Geekery, Pewter?

Oh yes, I was talking about it in a wider context. For reasons of space I haven’t gone into detail of why something is or isn’t sexist in the list above, I’ve merely attempted to highlight an awful lot of things which add up to some problematic view points. I don’t think Azeroth as a world is anti-feminist at all, but a lot of what the designers put in game clearly come from a particular, privileged position. Even raising your voice to speak out about such things brings in silencing accusations of “Reverse Sexism” and ‘being overly politically correct’ (and even blaming the sexism on the female player for presenting themselves as female within game. What about, yanno, blaming the man for being sexist towards her?)

Wanting to change these things, wanting to talk about them, doesn’t mean sanitising the World of Warcraft. Far from it – it means enrichment, and moving beyond the tired old privileged tropes of male-gaze orientated fantasy, and a discouragement of the sort of bigoted language that has free rein in many guilds. It is not sanitising to want two major female law characters to talk to each other about something other than a man, or to want a female boss to be the focus of an expansion, or to speak out against rape culture (I really recommend reading the comments of Wolfshead’s article as well, as there is some excellent discussion/points made by Ken and Ysharros. This blog post is not a critique/answer to Wolfshead, but he does represent very mainstream opinions.)

As a geek feminist I commonly have my views dismissed because I’m directly commenting on issues that currently concern main-stream feminist (like gender representation in government, gender mutilation, contraception and body rights.) This is not a blog about mainstream feminism, about why menstrual products are taxed as luxury products or how I feel about wearing make up at work. The value of the more global battlefields do not mean that the smaller geek/culture discussions are not worth having. Games, Art, TV, they all reflect values and attitudes that we have in the real world. Science Fiction and Fantasy have long been a place for writers to speculate on topics of gender, power and sex, and Games merely continue that tradition as they enter our lives very early on in the western world. Geek things matter to me, and I’m invested in them. I chose to watch and read all kinds of things, but consumption of media doesn’t grant immunity to critique (or we’d never have game reviews.)

The idea that as geek females we should simply put up and shut up, we should be quiet, and that we are to blame because we want to participate, is extremely damaging and sexist in it’s own right. All too often male bloggers and posters on forums will pull out a female gamer friend who agrees with their point of view and use that to support a privileged point of view. As a gamer I have fallen into the trap of painting myself as ‘not like those other girl gamers who flirt and cause drama’, and that sort of internalised sexism is as much a hindrance to equality and progressiveness as anything else.

On Heteronormativity, Race and Gender Binaries

And all of the above comes from a straight, white, educated woman. There are many further discussions to be hand on intersectional topics. If women, who aren’t a ‘small minority’ have trouble enough with being told that being ‘not quite equal’ is good enough, then topics of race and sexuality (which are talked about even less than feminism) are the elephant in the room. This isn’t about men, or hating them, it’s about what is not visible already. It’s bigger and more complicated than trying to boil gender bias down to ‘boys v girls’.

Pseudonymity and Visibility

I am ELATED that I won’t have to leave behind a community that I adore. The official forums have long been a cesspit, but that does not mean that there is no value in them.

In the WoW-Blogosphere there has been a solidarity of spirit that has been enlightening and exhilarating. Being part of something that has touched the lives of thousands of people worldwide is both frightening and ecstatic at the same time. While I discussed the worried of the marginalised groups, compared to the worries of the whole, the conversations were worth having for all involved.

Would the Visibility of Marginalised Voices Have Increased?

Oh what might have been. Facebook actually has more women, worldwide, than men (self-identified women, at least). Is the female voice safe there? I don’t know, and -ist language can certainly have free reign there, but then women are equally capable of misogynistic language and behaviour as men. Facebook is not a focused forum, like the WoW Community, it is merely a framework that people hang their real life connections on to. People meet and connect through it, but it is just a medium and not a community in and of itself. Trying to measure WoW, and what might have been under a ‘Real Name’ forum system is futile, and using facebook as a metric for accountability even more so.

I cancelled my two accounts because I didn’t want to participate in a game where I could not communicate on the official forums with at least some basic personal safety features. I cancelled because many women (and others) would be silenced by the lack of choice that is becoming a target vs Silence. We were lucky Blizzard were able to use this against whoever in Activision-Blizzard decided RealID was a good thing. I feel that there is a battle that took place within the company, without the player base having insight into the internal conflict.

However there was a part of me going “Sod this. I need to be visible.” Part of the reason that the internet is geared towards the privilege of ‘white, male, 18-35′ is because pseudonymity masks those who are ‘other’ from plain sight. Pseudonymity protects the marginalised, but it also means that other users are never confronted with people that have different needs and wants, with different world views. If they never get confronted with the idea that the gaming community is a lot more diverse than it was 10,15 or 20 years ago, then we will have to work harder to make it apparent.

Women (to take the marginalised but numerous group that I identify with) are much more visible in tech/gaming communities now than they were 5 years ago, but female techies and bloggers who participate in a neutral way (that is, they don’t go around saying ‘here I am, woman, here me roar’) still get targeted for harassment merely because they are female. While it is safer for us to hide behind anonymity, I am still left wondering what might have been if the ‘Real Name’ forums had been filled with loud and proud women from the start. However this wistful view point still ignores the exclusion of other marginalised groups, and does not take into account the white, able-bodied and straight privilege that I personally have.

I am considering attaching my real name to my blog, and to my characters. I am not ready to do this yet, but I might be. It’s a big decision and one I won’t take lightly. On the other hand this blog has a relatively small readership. The other ‘result’ is that I am considering splitting off the Elemental Shaman side, and concentrating on a full fledged feminist gaming blog. Possibly with multiple authors. I don’t have a following that would make such a thing guaranteed to succeed, but I need to consider the possibilities.

It’s not just psychos who connect the dots

This is hard to post about. It is NOT just actual stalkers that will hunt you down. People are naturally curious, and people know that they can google anything. I am not a psycho. I’ve never harassed or hounded someone, or take things from curiosity to contacting them in real life. I have, however, connected the dots between someone in my community and a personality who was infamous in certain other on-line circles, and on ‘drama’ websites like Encyclopaedia Dramatica. All the space of a short hour I found out about this individual’s history of drama, of business scams. I was suspicious about some things he was telling people, bored, and fascinated by the fact that a person would do all that kind of crap. I found one piece of information and clicked through to find the next bit. Astonished. Disgusted. And I told some friends of mine because I didn’t want them to be scammed in the same way. I didn’t want them to put their trust in someone who had apparently violated the trust of so many. Even a pseudonym is dangerous – all I had to go on at the time was a first name and a character name.

I know I’m not a ‘psycho’ (hah). I was one bored person, at work, with google, who is good at picking a part individual bits of information because it is what I do for a living. The people who commit sexual assault are not strange weird people living in caves. They are otherwise ‘normal’ people who do horrific things. Remember the truism that most sex offences are committed by someone known to the victim? Potential trolls aren’t some strange breed of alien, they are people. Ordinary people can do monstrous things in the name of curiosity and ‘teaching someone a lesson’. The people who hunt down the private information of the person who killed them in BGs, or told them off for being racist in party chat are not monsters. They are ordinary people who have no thought of the consequences of their actions, and no frame of empathy for people on the other side of a computer screen.This is not an excuse, this is a reason to stop thinking of stalkers as and harassers as ‘something that will never happen to me’, because a mob is made up of ordinary people.

I know many recruitment officers who do a routine google of email addresses and character names, who use the ‘detective’ options of wow-progress to help them track down and assess the history of a potential application. Guilds are private members clubs, and retaining members is often dependent on careful screening of applicants. Guilds all look for different criteria of course, but background checks are a part of protecting the guild community.

Stop Comparing the Situation to Terrorism and Rape

For serious. As much as I feel this whole event is a feminist/intersectional problem, as well as a Right to Privacy issue – comparing the RealID to rape is not cool. Rape is rape. This is silencing, and violating, but it is not ‘rape’. I know it is an analogy to get the point across, but it is a really bad choice in my opinion. I’ve seen a couple of blogs do this, and I’m pretty unhappy about it. It might be a little shocking and thus get the point across, but it is no better than going ‘Argh, the horde totally raped us in that battleground’.

Secondly I’ve seen some people on twitter (and around the net) saying things like “Congratulations, the Terrorists Won’. The bit of me that is currently apt to flare up and be mad about stuff easily saw red at that. Comparing a PR and privacy issue to Terrorism is, frankly, fucking disrespectful of those who have lost their lives to terrorism, and members of the public who are doing anything but ‘terrorisng’ Blizzard. I don’t for a moment think it was the ‘examples’ made by wowriot and a couple of other blogs that forced Blizzard into making this decision. No, I think it was the perfectly reasonable objections of thousands of people who cancelled their accounts and gave the feedback on the forums, who spread the word via twitter, and through many major news outlets worldwide. Through all the people objected on the Wall Street Journal article, the BBC Have Your Say.

At this stage I don’t think the people who just.don’t.get.it will ever understand the concerns of those who protested. We can explain privilege, the hostile society that is the gaming community, and how real rape and stalking is for women (1 in 10 women get stalked) and the growing threat towards men, and the prevalence of trans-hate and homophobia, but I think they just don’t want to see. It doesn’t fit into their world view, so they dismiss it as paranoia and tinfoil hatting.

Blizzard and our Personal Information

Now, I have seen some bloggers quitting because they can’t change the name on their account to a false one. Frankly I think this is overreacting. I don’t think Activision-Blizzard is going to flick a switch one day and make all our real names ‘public’. They will always give customers a ‘way out’ of sharing this information. As I’ve said before, the implementation and granular controls are not good enough, but legally they have to give a way for you to opt out of a system. They need to do this without the clunkiness that is using Parental Controls, and hopefully they will make sure that choices for protecting privacy are REAL choices in future. However I don’t expect them to let anyone remove a real name on an account once it is verified, as money is involved, and they need that information to hold players accountable for crimes committed through the game. Expecting a business not to keep real name records of it’s ongoing customers (hello, invoices?) is ridiculous.

At the moment, if you want to be safe, turn Parental Controls on. A handy guide can be found here. There is still a bug that can leak your Real ID even if you have no Real ID friends, so be secret, be safe!

Okay, after about 6 posts on this topic I need a break. I will return to Gamer Culture and Feminism another time, but I really want to look at Worgen and Goblin Hairstyles and childishly *squee* and think about 41pt talent trees. As, yanno, that’s really what this blog is about, right?